Have you ever been disappointed in your dh

**karone** · 10-14-2007, 12:26 PM

all the time with zack. after i had merrick he was never around. he never got the hint that i needed time away from him and merrick even though i told him that i did. with jason i know that i will get that time.

**pip** · 10-14-2007, 03:59 PM

Oh, yes. Life is harder once you have kids. My kids are getting older now so it's getting easier. I've also been thinking lately that I need to do more on my own and try to take care of myself a little better...not always wait around for my husband's approval or time. I think this attitude is helping me not feel as resentful or needy, and I wish I had worked on feeling this way earlier. I wish you the best.

**daisymay1960** · 10-16-2007, 06:54 AM

It is very hard , but it does get better when the kids get older.
The only trouble is , the kids grow up , you get more time for yourself , get more independant ........then your husband feels neglected lol ....hey tough luck was my answer

all joking aside we all need some me time and sometimes it seems easier just to give in , but i think its important to be a little bit selfish now and then?

**FrugalMomof3** · 10-16-2007, 11:29 AM

I feel dissapointed as well and much more lately and in the recent year or so than ever before, some of you's may know why but yes, I am in the same boat and I sure hope it doesnt sink.