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Old 10-27-2009, 02:31 AM   #1 (permalink)
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My stepdaughter got into a huge fight, i told her if she didnt like the rules to get the hell out. She she did just that, Its been the best stress free week. My husband is thrilled she is gone, her sister is just in fantasty land and happy.. SD went as far as telling her aunts i i slapped her and kicked her . NONE OF THAT HAPPEN.NEVERRRR, Een her 14 year old sisters said to daddy, mom never did those things to her or me.. But sisters of my husband,he warned me about them, how they are big B's and C. I have tried my best with her, she is a narsisst for sure.I gave my life to god over the weekend, and he is filling up my life with joy, Oh hubby supports me 100% All she does is lie.
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Old 10-27-2009, 06:57 AM   #2 (permalink)
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From your past posts I know you really tried w/ SD. I hope things go better for you and your family now.
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Old 10-27-2009, 07:36 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I know where your coming from.Only my SD is only 15. She is allyou described and her father also knows it now. For a while he didn't want to believe it but he does now. He told her that when sheis 18 if she doesn't start following the rules she had better either go to the service or have a place to live because she won't be here. It's sad that things have to be this way for us and others but now hopefully things for you will get better. I know how stressful it is to live like that.
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Old 10-27-2009, 07:45 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Good riddance! Give her a chance to grow up a little and maybe she won't be such an a-hole.
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Old 10-27-2009, 07:50 AM   #5 (permalink)
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It seems like her leaving was meant to be for everyone in your household. Best of luck and enjoy every minute of the house being at a lower stress level.

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Praise God - He gave you the wisdom, courage and strength to do what needed to be done.

I was wondering where you were, hadn't seen any posts from you. You've had a busy week for sure!
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Old 10-27-2009, 12:01 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Hope it works out for the best for everyone. Maybe, if she is out on her own, she'll realize all you did for her.
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Old 10-27-2009, 11:15 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Thanks everyone.I do feel so much better. But i guess the things that really hurt are the lies.Hubbies family is calling him a dumbass, i have went to his family for the last 4 years and told them about the problems and none ever stepped up to the plate to help out, but they sure are setting back calling me every name under the sun.Infact they them selves told me she had alot of mental issues. Im just so glad to be done with this stuff. To a new life.
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Old 10-28-2009, 08:28 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Glad you could step back and get the help you needed..The lord will guide you from here on out.

The hardest job in the world is a step parent.

Hang in there and God bless you and your family.
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Old 10-28-2009, 08:32 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Hopefully, for herr sake, she will grow up and learn from all of this. Take care of yourself and your family - I can only imagine the relief you must be living.
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Old 10-28-2009, 08:37 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Bratt said it the hardest job is to be a step mother, i have had that job and none lived with us, but my ex didn't accept the fact that the one was causing trouble was his daughter he blame the daughter in law and still do that one reason he is and ex.
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