Need thoughts from 2nd wives/stepmoms -long

[annymoll]

I am not divorced, but here is my opinion. There is no way I would bring a child of mine into the world and into a situation like the one you are describing. My child deserves better, and so do I.I believe you can love more than one person, so you would not be settling if you waited for love that would be yours alone, instead of some psyco seconds. This man already has a family to take care of and be responsible for. You are way down the line in the order of responsibility. I say more on, and consider yourself lucky.

[Mrs22]

Sorry if I'm repetetive, I haven't read ALL the replies but i'm just curious how Romeo feels about all this? My husband's ex is a drama queen indeed ever since he left her for me. It drives him insane but I sit back and don't let it bother me. Obviously she's upset, I would be too however I'd deal with it differently, but, my husband and I are a team. We love each other, have had to make sacrifices to be together, and the 'osbtacles' will only go away with time. Be supportive, be understanding, be PATIENT and loving. Romeo will love these qualities about you. After all, he did leave that woman for whatever reason, and is fully aware that she's a psycho. It's been over a year that my husband's ex is on our case but she's starting to calm down now, shes nowhere near as bad as that woman you have to deal with. And I agree with one of these members, call the cops. Or get your Romeo to do it. Let him take charge. Let him tell her off. Again, I wonder how he feels about the whole thing. Do NOT give up on true love because of someone who wants you apart. Don't let her win. Best of luck and keep us updated on how it's going! X

[Mrs22]

Also one more quick note, if she's not an apt parent (she doesn't sound like someone who's making a healthy and loving environment for her kids!), i suggest you video tape her craziness and take her to court. Take custody of that poor child, and quickly have your own