do you sometimes find it challenging to NOT get sucked into your friends financial messes? i have a friend who thru a series of thoughtless/reckless/careless actions and decisions permeating thru most of her adult life has herself now in such a financial pickle somebody should call Guinness. on the one hand i hate that such a wonderful good hearted person is in the bind she is in, but at the same time i just wanna shake her!!!!
i really have to work at the art of detachment......as time has passed and i've learned more of her story, it's become apparent that while she does not make poor choices with the intention of self-destructing, over the years that has become her MO and in a strange way, her comfort zone. more paramount than any of that is for ME to remember that HER problems are not there for ME to fix!!! ack.
there's such a fine line between knowing that certain methods and solutions DO work IF one commits to the plan and then sticks with it, offering suggestions and standing by the creed of Live and Let Live. just curious if others have had similar experiences???