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    Default Hi ho, hi ho, it's off to court we go!!!!

    He sent me his proposal, and it was so idiotic as to be laughable. You ladies that said he was trying to maintain control were completely correct, he does not even want me to leave town without my cell phone with the children without his WRITTEN permission! Here is a list of things I would need his written permission for:

    Blood work for the children
    Educational assessments of the children
    Leaving the city limits with the children
    Changing their school
    Changing any childcare situation
    Visiting my family
    Counselling for the children
    Going across the border to go shopping with the children
    Changing the visitation schedule in any way unless HE requests it


    He also wants me to forgive 100% of the back support and base new payments on his alledged 2006 income of $7000. Yes you are reading correctly. How frugal he must be!

    Not a single solitary chance in the depths of you-know-where. The money for the lawyer is arranged and I will see his whiny little butt in court!

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    Glad you stuck to your guns, he will continue to try to control whenever possible. Glad you are dragging him before the judge. WTG!

    Hold him accountable for all the back support he owes.

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    We are here for you!

    Keep us posted.

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    Sounds to me.. that it is a control thing. But also the list of stuff, is like he is trying to make sure you don't up and run. My mother used to say that when people hint around, they are usually the first to contemplate that.. I would keep an eye on him...

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    Wow I pity him, lol He is still trying to control everything, take his BUTT to court! and keep us posted.

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    Karen,

    Yeesh, so sorry about all the drama. But I am glad that you have the lawyer part under control......Maybe you should have your lawyers investigator interview the other guys that work at his establishment and find out what they make a week in tips, wages ect.......

    Just an idea.

    leezza

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    Sorry for the drama....but he wants you to forgive 100% of what he owes you....as if!! You can tell he has no lawyer but the wacky proposal he came up with. Sounds like a real control freak. Good luck with getting this behind you.

    Hope he earns alot of $1 bills to pay you back !

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    The whole situation is almost laughable, it's so ridiculous.

    Get as much $$ as you can from him. After all, they're his kids.

    Keep us posted.

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    Good luck when you go to court. Keep us posted.

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    What is he smoking and where can I get some?!?!?

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    I would think any judge is going to laugh at his proposal, too. Good luck in court!

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    And now that i've stopped laughing.....

    Good Luck in Court! and WTG!

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    can't...reply...laughing...too...hard...peein....pants!

    phew, what a moron. Good luck in court. let us know what happens. this bozo (haven't gotten the satisfaction of using that word in a while. but it fits...no?) will get his comuppins before the judge.

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    I am so sorry you are still dealing with this. I'll be thinking about you all. I would say "good luck" ,but I don't think you will need it!

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    Go get em sister!!! Sigh, where DO some of them come up with these silly ideas anyway?

    NAIL HIS BUTT TO THE WALL!!!

    We're here for ya

    hugs.
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