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    Thanks for the advice

    I spoke with a lawyer and my mom watched my kids while I went to talk to her. She did say not to take anything lightly.

    The only thing she could question was nude pictures taken before I was even pregnant.

    I have a clean lifestyle, I can prove i'm a good mom.

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    as someone said before, its very difficult to take a kid from their mother (unfortunatly in our case) my brothers lawyer proved his ex wife was unstable, didn't have a job, was a compulsive liar, was shacking up and fighting with her live in boyfriend in front of the child etc. the list goes on and on.... and the judge let her keep the baby. he didn't even say she was the better parent, he just wasn't taking the baby from her.

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    I can prove i'm a good mom and have a good home environment.

    I know 7 people personally who has a child education background from playgroups and such who would stand up for me.

    I know a cps worker that helped me when my ex husband was harassing me that may write a letter on my behalf about how I do have a loving home that is safe with plenty of food.

    My baby's doctor i'm sure would stand behind me about the care I give my daughter.

    I don't see how he can prove i'm a bad person. I do nothing but work around my kids schedules, i'm involved with school activities, playgroups, my children miss out on nothing. I use no babysitters, my mom watched my children when I have like dental appointments or pap appt. at the doctors. My kids are with me all the time. I don't date or go out. My life revolves around my kids.

    That reminds me...when I was pregnant me and my oldest left behind everything we owned to move in with my exboyfriend in Texas. We got there broke and was stuck there. I lost a lot of weight within the 2 months I was there and I was pregnant because he wouldn't give me and my daughter hardly any food, he stole what little we brought with us, he stole money my mom sent me so me and my daughter could get back to Michigan.
    We finally left after being there 7 weeks because my family came up with the money and sent it to us western union. We got out of there fast and when we were hundreds of miles away we finally stopped at a fast food place and pigged out until we were sick.

    Last summer the baby spent 5 days with him and his mom at his neices house 200 miles from me. The morning we left to meet I took my baby to the doctors and she weighed 24 pounds. After spending 5 days with him she lost 4 pounds!

    This all makes me so angry

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    Bless your heart. I don't have anything to add to all the great advice you have already been given, just sending (((HUGS))).

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    In order to take you to court, he has to have a reason to justify it. It sounds like the nude picture argument is all he could come up with, but it was enough to get the court to open it's doors. I'm sure nothing will come from it (and you did say the pictures were taken BEFORE you were pregnant.....do you have proof of that?)

    I haven't read your blog, but yes, you really need to watch every.single.word.you.say. Don't bash him....it'll only hurt you. The courts are becoming more father friendly.

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    lmao I'm sorry but that is the most rediculous thing I've heard in a long time. Again I will appologize but geezus what an idiot. I really don't think you have a thing to worry about. Really you give your girls a good stable enviroment providing for their needs and love them nuf said. As for the pics you know what goes on in the privacy in your own home between at the time two loving adults it your business, it's not like the girls were involved with this. Sweetie don't stress too much, I just don't see a way he'll win any of it, it's just too stupid. My gf gave her youngest to her ex b/c she had another son prior to the marriage and thought she prolly couldn't provide for the both as well. Any hoo she can't get him back now no matter what and the reason is the father provided what the child needed and he's an alcoholic. *big hugs, I really feel secure in say you don't have anything to worry about.

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    Wow! I am so sorry you are having to deal with this and I hope it all works out for you and for your girls!!

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    Up hee they have something called The Office of the Children's Lawyer. They are assigned through the courts to help make an unbiased recommendation about where the child will be better off. It worked really well for me, since they visited both homes and tried to get to know both parties as well as the children. If there is anything like that, I am sure that your little home will shine above his.

    DO NOT attempt to go through this without representation. Document everything. My documentation was key in the court proceedings. My ex pulled much the same thing, and also wanted back-alimony from me. I won, but it took two years. I have a feeling your ex will not hang in there that long but be prepared.

    Good luck!

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    My thoughts will be with you.

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    I just wanted to add that you have NOTHING to feel ashamed of about taking the nude photos. It's not as if you were starring in porn. It's not as if you were selling the pictures to make money. You and your exbf took those pictures in the privacy of your bedroom. If the only reason he can find to doubt your parenting is that you have had nude photos taken by him, then you can point that finger right back and say, "Well it was his idea and he took the pictures." And furthermore, taking nude pictures while in the privacy of your own home for your own personal enjoyment is not a derivative of questionable moral character. And if it is, I'm in the same boat with ya honey!

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    Nichole is right, if nude pictures were enough to remove a child from it's mother, no one in hollywood or myspace would still have children! What happens in your bedroom is your business. IMO, it sounds like the ex just wants the money, not the kids, and that's despicable.

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    This has got even stupider. He put in a request with the friend of the court asking to take her to Texas on vacation for 3 months! Of course he was turned down and the judge is aware of this, the judge has an order in place already that she cannot leave the state because he is already deemed as a flight risk.

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    Last night i was looking at his myspace and several peopele in his hometown have been making comments about how they can't wait to see him and the baby, like he's planning on taking her down there.

    I printed that and gave it to the judge also.

    I seriously think he's trying to take her one way or another. My dad is friends with the local police officers and he's going to make everyone aware of whats going on

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    I am sorry you are going through this and sure hope everything turns out ok, maybe sure to document everything and yes make your blog private as suggested in the beginning.

    I think he's being spiteful or hand to be coaxed into fighting for custody, I dont think the courts will take them out of a loving home especially if they are being cared for. PLEASE let us know how things turn out and good luck!

    When is the court date?

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    there is a date next Wedenesday, I think it's called an informal conference or something.

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