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    Since April of last year my DIL has been living with me. My son and her have 2 boys together. Christopher who is 9 and little Brandon who is 7 and have down syndrome. Well last month they decide to call it quits. Hes been giving her money every week and last Friday he gave her $1400 to help her get a place. She has been staying with her aunt who has a flop house 14-15 people in a 3 bedroom. and all the alcohol and drugs you could want to do. Well she told my son today that she needed money and had better give it to her tomorrow. He told she no. So now to punish me I will not be alowed to see my grandsons. Little Brandon has been staying with me because he does not like it there. She doesnt send the kids to school. have chris do his school work. Thats not important. I am so sad.

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    I'm sorry Ferny, some people should not be parents. I will pray that she comes to her senses soon.

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    How sad for the boys. They are the ones who are being punished. They have to live in a flop house, then are refused the right to see the one person who will take care of them and give them what they need...their grandmother.

    I will pray for this situation.

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    I am so sad for you and you ds. I pray that the dil will have the wisdom to see things for what they are and bring the children back to you and get them in school.

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    I'm sorry. I especially feel bad for the kids.

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    Divorce does strange thing to people. I am sorry you have to go through this. Sending prayers your way.

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    Sending you prayers and hugs. Your DIL needs to come to her senses and put the needs of her kids first.


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    Is your son documenting everything? If not, he should be. Also has child support been established? My heart goes out to you, your son and those innocent boys. Is there anyway your son can get custody?

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    I am sorry Fern. I hope your DIL comes to her senses!

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    I'm so sorry. Your grandchildren are lucky to have you and I hope soon they will be able to be with you. I agree with CPS by the way. They should not be forced to be exposed to what you are describing when they have a loving alternative.

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