Is it Wrong for Me to Nudge My Adult Child to See the Door Out?
please don't get me wrong. She's in college and working a part time(close to full time) working job.
The problem is that I'm cleaning up her messes in the house more and more(she helps out some) and she 'expects' me because of her age, in college, I suppose. she shouldn't have a curfew and as a 20 year old, I shouldn't ask who she is going out with that night and what she is doing.
Her excuse is that going for a nursing degree takes a family member to support them the whole way through. maybe so for some...
I guess I'm asking if I'm being too strict and need to loosen up or nudge her out if she wants more 'freedom' that she is asking for...Yes we've talked about her being independent on her own.
I told her there is always gonna be a curfew, rather it's 2 am or 12 am. I just think she hates answering to me. Trust me, we've had adult talks and money talks...Gah, I love her to death, but we are butting heads!!
This is my first adult child post, so be nice!! :)