This is one area we both agreed on all the while we had debt. (Actually one of the few we have agreed on - we are totally opposities.) We both knew how much debt we had and although I made all the payments, I never hid how much debt we carried.

How many of you actually go to bed with your spouse/mate?? I don't - even if I do go to bed with him to rub his sore back it is understood that I will get up cuz its just too early for me... how about you guys - do you go to bed at the ssame time or after your mate?? I can't go to sleep that...