It dh's bosses birthday. Every year everyone pitches in for a gift. Well its been a long winter and most of the employees are gone. There are only four people so somebody has decided to ask everybody to give $25. I know this may not sound like a lot to some of you but honestly we cant afford this. Dh's birthday is next month and I wont even spend that much on him. We spent zero on mine. DH says he is in a corner and cant say no. This makes me angry becuase I would much rather spend the money on my own family. I think 25 is too much. I need to get him the money tonight becuase they want it tomarrow. I want to say no way. I dont understand , dh is one of the hightest paid and they have all had a slow winter and everybody is broke so why would they do so much. What would you do?