I want to hear your opinions on my situation.I have been married for about 1.5 years now.I moved from another state to be with my hubby in our current state.During the 1.5 years we've been married,i was jobless till about 6 months ago when I finally got a fulltime position after looking for a while.
My current situation is that I totally hate my job.I took on way more than I could handle and do not like it.I dont mind the actual job if a day had 36 hours but I am barely able to keep up with all the responsibilities.Because of that,my boss is breathing down my neck everyday,reminding me how I'm not doing the job well and comparing me to others.To say its affecting my self esteem is an understatement-hearing how bad you are at your job everyday will do that to you.I cant seem to do anything right in her eyes.I am stressed out,having endless headaches,dread going to work and every minute that I have to be there just kills me slowly.
I am considering quiting and being a stay at home wife( wehave no kids).My husband is ok with that.We survived very well with one income when I was jobless and can afford to do that comfortably.If I did quit,I would probably work part time when I needed or voluteered at what I am actually passionate about.
My question is,would it be wrong to quit?I kinda feel bad and was very excited at the thought of finally contributing.I feel like I should just tough it out at my job(till they fire me or something)but i really do hate going to work everyday.I have a Masters degree and feel like I would be wasting all that time & money i spent going to school.I know I shouldnt care but I am also concerned about what people would say(living off my husband,etc)
Any thoughts on this?
My current situation is that I totally hate my job.I took on way more than I could handle and do not like it.I dont mind the actual job if a day had 36 hours but I am barely able to keep up with all the responsibilities.Because of that,my boss is breathing down my neck everyday,reminding me how I'm not doing the job well and comparing me to others.To say its affecting my self esteem is an understatement-hearing how bad you are at your job everyday will do that to you.I cant seem to do anything right in her eyes.I am stressed out,having endless headaches,dread going to work and every minute that I have to be there just kills me slowly.
I am considering quiting and being a stay at home wife( wehave no kids).My husband is ok with that.We survived very well with one income when I was jobless and can afford to do that comfortably.If I did quit,I would probably work part time when I needed or voluteered at what I am actually passionate about.
My question is,would it be wrong to quit?I kinda feel bad and was very excited at the thought of finally contributing.I feel like I should just tough it out at my job(till they fire me or something)but i really do hate going to work everyday.I have a Masters degree and feel like I would be wasting all that time & money i spent going to school.I know I shouldnt care but I am also concerned about what people would say(living off my husband,etc)
Any thoughts on this?