thank you everyone !
i had some PM went to answer them and then they went poof so sorry if you sent me something and i didnt get back to you privately .
still sick here -went to work for a 1/2 day and by 3 after kids carpools i was in bed again with a fever 'i am off tomorrow and staying in bed all day
i said no to cake due to i cant taste it and we had cake last night for my youngest sons b-day so i am enjoying my McDs choc birthday shake while dh cleans and does some laundry !!!