Welcome back, Rhonda! I recently came back to FV myself, so I'm right there with ya!
I don't really have a budget per se right now, but DH handles the bills and gives me an allowance and that's all I have to worry about right now. He hardly EVER spends $, so I'm the one that has to keep on the frugal lifestyle...I can waste money like water if I don't keep frugality in mind...
Once DH feels better (he's sick with a bad cold), I will have him put a spreadsheet together for our bills. I tell you, until we had a vision of where we wanted to be in the next 5 years (we now want to move out of state), it was hard to stick to any kind of budget. So, my advice is to have some sort of goal in mind and then when you reach it, have another goal to continue on the path. It helps keep one focused.
Best of luck to you!!!
Andrea