take back your whole paycheck from his spend money & put that $$$ to better use... save it in case you need it if you have to leave! I'm sorry you are going thru this!:soapbox::grouphug:It has been 9yrs. I'm tired of talking and him agreeing and then doing what he wants anyway. I'm not going to do anything until he actually comes home with something else. I am checking into my options so I will be ready when it happens.
No family here. I would have to quit my job and move for them to help. That is why I would need the gov help.