[nodmicks]

I am so grateful to realize the grief is getting better. It will hit 5 months on the 4th since my brothers plane crashed in Dubai. I realized today I could finally think about the good times instead of only the loss.

 

[Daisygirl]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost someone very important in 2009 and I still have rough days. It's nice when you realize the pain is subsiding a little.

I'll be thinking of you.

 

[nodmicks]

Thanks Daisygirl. Im Sorry for your loss also. It is hard but I know our missing loved ones would want us to have happiness and joy

 

[fernykins]

I'm so glad you are able to remember the good times.........
Fern

 

[2ndGenGranola]

It takes time. Today is the anniversary of my Sister's death. While it feels like there is a hole in my heart, I also feel the warmth and it grows warmer each day.

 

[HappyMama]

I am glad you are able to remember the good times. I am so sorry for you loss. I will be thinking of you. Hugs and Blessings to you hon.

 

[Brat]

So sorry for your loss..I miss my DH every day but have been able to move on finially.

 

[brennasmom]

That is good. I lost my Dad in 2008 and it's still really hard some days

 

[Debbie-cat]

I am glad to hear you remember the good times. So sorry for your loss. Hugs.

 

[frugalfranny]

I am so grateful to realize the grief is getting better. It will hit 5 months on the 4th since my brothers plane crashed in Dubai. I realized today I could finally think about the good times instead of only the loss.

Then I would say you are making progress but it can be slow and some days will be much better than others.

My mom's birthday is still really hard.........Jan 14.........as is mother's day.

 

[mauimagic]

Mahalo for sharing this with us Nodmicks - some days will always be better than others, but you are climbing up. Everyone's grief is different. Continued hugs, prayers and aloha my friend.

 

[Hamada]

May you continue to find peace.

 

[Ramona]

Oh, nodmiks, I'm glad you're remembering the happy times.

 

[nodmicks]

Thanks everyone. His birthday was beyond awful but since then I can talk about him and smile also instead of only cry. Progress!

 

[Neeley]

Hugs and continued prayers for all of you.

Leigh