from wanting to spend money all the time? If it isn't motorcycle parts, it's something else. I hardly buy anything at all for myself, but it seems like he spends a fortune. I need ideas.
Stay home and "Do what ever you want" right???Yes, mine is like that also. And he has been working almost 60 hours/week, so he is tired. And of course, I "get" to stay home all day.
YES!You guys need to talk about money, how much there is and where it's going, and what the plans for the future are.
I have met men who have a psychological need to blow money at the drop of a hat, because having a budget makes them "feel" poor, and being poor is a sign of personal failure. You have to get them to want to save up for things and plan ahead.
This is a start, but this is not how you get on the same page.I told him this weekend how much the bills are, and how much we pay. I still don't think he gets it.