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My sons has been dating the same girl about 18 months. Her 38 year old aunt passed away. The visitation is tonight. I really should go to show my support for her and her mom but I just can't.

Today would have been my brothers 39th birthday had he not died in September. Besides having a heck of a bad cold I am just absolutely miserable today on my brothers birthday. I can not believe how hard this day hit me. He was so excited to celebrate this birthday he never made it to because if all the 1's in 01/11/2011.

I am having a plant delivered to their home this morning and do hope they understand . I dont know if I should explain or just let it go with sending my condolences with the card and plant being delivered.
 

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My sympathies are with you on this difficult day. Send the plant and card and explain later to your son's girlfriend. I am sure she will understand. :hugz:
 
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I think they will understand very well. Hugs to you.
 
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Thanks you two. I hope they do. I'm sure my son will mention it when he goes. I feel bad letting him go alone after all it is hard for him also. I'm hoping my husband will go with him tonight.
 

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I have gone to ONE funeral since my late husband's 11yrs ago and that one was just last summer. It was still too hard, I wasn't able to stay for the entire thing. It will be a looooooooong time before I go to another one.
 

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I have gone to ONE funeral since my late husband's 11yrs ago and that one was just last summer. It was still too hard, I wasn't able to stay for the entire thing. It will be a looooooooong time before I go to another one.

Hugs I know what you mean! Sadly we had one shortly after my brothers for hubbys 48 year old cousin. I was a wreck because I cared for her and all her family and also because I was still grieving my brothers recent passing and knew just how they all felt.
 

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I know the feeling except I don't want to celabrate anything. My son' b-day was july 26th and my grandaughters is the same day. It was really hard last year.
Just let her know that you are with her is throught.
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They know you are thinking of them. Be kind to yourself.:heartsm:
 
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