I feel so Down and I am actually worried. I posted in the Debt reduction and Money Management Forum about how I have been tracking my spending etc....I did this to myself, I realize this and have come to the realization that I have to take control and be held accountable for my own behavior and as I mentioned before, there is no debt fairy who is going to come along and save me. The problem is that most of my money that I have been spending I have been trying to help my brother and his family, my parents and my significant other. Since I stopped handing out money to help my family I have been called "mean" by my significant other (who by the way still brings in more money than me), had a text from my sister in law twice and a phone call for money, had my mother tell me that when she was on life support last year and the dr.s wanted to let her go that maybe they should have (because of poor money management she was depressed when she said this to me) but I told the dr to keep trying when he asked me to let her go peacefully.....and tonight my stepfather told me that his nerves are shot because of money! I have been told that I handle money poorly that is why I have no extra money (ok, I agree with that but only because I Give, Give, and Give!) I am scared that my mother and stepfather are going to do something horrible to themselves from being depressed about money but I tried twice to help them and spent hundreds of $ over the past two years to help them...no, longer then that. I am all of the sudden the bad guy. I had moved away for 20 years and when I moved back 5 years ago is when this all started....Eg: I would be at work and my stepfather would come to my job and ask me if I had money to loan them....I paid them my rent on time to them( $400 a month while I lived with them while my brother paid nothing and they had a border along with their pensions). I just want to cry cry cry! I don't mind going through my cupboards to give them food but actual cash? No, I can't do that anymore but the guilt is so overwhelming! they are back to borrowing from their friends and going to the cash store. They had asked me to help them with their money situation (my parents) and I had them 2 times up to par and then once they were there they wanted their bank cards etc back (they had given them to me so they wouldn't be tempted to use them) I can't do this anymore but I am scared that I am going to loose them...any Prayers would be Greatly appreciated....Thanks to Everyone in Advance.