I have been through this myself- when I was pregnant with my second child, 20 years ago. If caught early, cervical cancer is almost 100% curable. Very, very good reason to have your pap smears every year ladies!! Mine was a stage 3, and we waited until the baby was born, then they froze my cervix, killing all the cancer cells. I had to have checkups and pap smears every 6 months afterwards, and everything turned out fine- I even had a 3rd child! I'll be thinking about you, please pm me if you need to talk!!