Hello everyone! I don`t know if this is where I need to put this.
My dgs is almost 17 ,I`ve been raising him for 9yrs.
He has wanted to quit school since the 8th grade.
I don`t have custody of him, his dad does. His dad has`t been a good Dad to him.He just haven`t had anything to do with him or support him. He doesn`t pay child support.But since he gotmarried 2 yrs.he`s done more for him if he needed it,but not a lot.
this year he wanted to quit so I went to sign the with draw form, but could`nt because I didn`t have custody.
He called his dad and he wouldn`t sign it. Michael wanted to go into the
ROTC.
well he hasn`t been to school since the 5th of feb. I only knew of six day`s
and the school never called and told me.
He`s not suppose to take our car to school ,only if he missed the bus.
well he took the buick on last monday. He was told not to take the car again . we hid the key`s for that car.
Tuesday morning I was still in the bed. the camaro is in the back yard , has rotten tires on it,a doughnut tire on it, no tag . hasn`t been onthe road for several yrs.
I`m laying in the bed,and I hear it start up. I lay there a minute till it register`s,by the time I get to the front door I hear it going down the road .
I open the door wider and look up the street and see the tail end.
I go throw some cloth on and go to the school, I drive thr the parking lot .
I don`t see the camaro , but I go in any way and ask if he`s there. F course he isn`t and that`s when I find out he hasn`t been there since the 5th.
I go look at a couple of places then I go back home.
Then I call his cell phone again he answer`s I tell him to get his self home.
He comes home I tell him what I know and he tell `s me he`s not going back to school.
he call`s his dad that night and hids dad tell`s him no.
Michael has 16 yyrs. of hatred and anger built up.
He has alway`s been scared ofhis dad. He told him off and it was not a pretty picture. He went over the top on some thing`s. But his dad did deserve most of what he said.
we talked to my son several times and asked him to sign the paper.
He wasn`t going to do it. He called us several times,when he was home this past Friday he took dgs to juvenile cout building and talked to a probation officer.
he suggested several option`s. ds is going to sign the paper now.But first he is going to draw up a contract that say`s if michael hasn`t taken his GED in a yr. he will have to go back to school. michael will have to sign it and it will be notarized.
dgs said he could live with that.
He has adhd and he has been a hand ful for yrs.
Thank`s for listening !
cissylu
My dgs is almost 17 ,I`ve been raising him for 9yrs.
He has wanted to quit school since the 8th grade.
I don`t have custody of him, his dad does. His dad has`t been a good Dad to him.He just haven`t had anything to do with him or support him. He doesn`t pay child support.But since he gotmarried 2 yrs.he`s done more for him if he needed it,but not a lot.
this year he wanted to quit so I went to sign the with draw form, but could`nt because I didn`t have custody.
He called his dad and he wouldn`t sign it. Michael wanted to go into the
ROTC.
well he hasn`t been to school since the 5th of feb. I only knew of six day`s
and the school never called and told me.
He`s not suppose to take our car to school ,only if he missed the bus.
well he took the buick on last monday. He was told not to take the car again . we hid the key`s for that car.
Tuesday morning I was still in the bed. the camaro is in the back yard , has rotten tires on it,a doughnut tire on it, no tag . hasn`t been onthe road for several yrs.
I`m laying in the bed,and I hear it start up. I lay there a minute till it register`s,by the time I get to the front door I hear it going down the road .
I open the door wider and look up the street and see the tail end.
I go throw some cloth on and go to the school, I drive thr the parking lot .
I don`t see the camaro , but I go in any way and ask if he`s there. F course he isn`t and that`s when I find out he hasn`t been there since the 5th.
I go look at a couple of places then I go back home.
Then I call his cell phone again he answer`s I tell him to get his self home.
He comes home I tell him what I know and he tell `s me he`s not going back to school.
he call`s his dad that night and hids dad tell`s him no.
Michael has 16 yyrs. of hatred and anger built up.
He has alway`s been scared ofhis dad. He told him off and it was not a pretty picture. He went over the top on some thing`s. But his dad did deserve most of what he said.
we talked to my son several times and asked him to sign the paper.
He wasn`t going to do it. He called us several times,when he was home this past Friday he took dgs to juvenile cout building and talked to a probation officer.
he suggested several option`s. ds is going to sign the paper now.But first he is going to draw up a contract that say`s if michael hasn`t taken his GED in a yr. he will have to go back to school. michael will have to sign it and it will be notarized.
dgs said he could live with that.
He has adhd and he has been a hand ful for yrs.
Thank`s for listening !
cissylu
