each night: dishes, pu living area and room (each is responsible for their own), laundry (if a load was done), wipe down bathroom (i keep a towel to wipe down the shower- and a bottle of joy dish soap to swish around the toilet), cull 12 'items' (works out 4 thngs per person in my house as do 8) once a week. keep laundry baskets in each person's room for dirty laundry once it's filled wash/dry/fold/return to be put up.
lay out tormorrow's outfit/accessories, fix tomorrows lunch if possible, check calendar for bills due.
morning routine: wake, get kids up for school, dd has to walk buddy every morning, start school (ds is home taught), check errand list and pass along something to dh. lay out items for b'fast(m-f usually cereal, oatmeal, muffins, s-s waffles, gravy biscuits, pancakes-or cereal), lunch, dinner. off to work-
delegate - age based chores even dh has a list of things to do.
I too follow the Fly- just love her to pieces. it took me a while to understand that her guidelines were just that

since I love lists also (love prepping visually- take photos then go make list from things needed doing)-this helped me when I reorganzied my kitchen.
I made a master list for each room (and for a while it was taped to the light switch-so anyone working in that room could ck something off), my children are now 14/12 and they can earn money or game time. for a while back in the day, toys ran rampant then I wised up- they both had/have one 'bin' that fits under the bed. any and all toys must fit in that -they don't have large items anymore, we take turns sweeping, mopping (although ds is showing more interest at this point than dd about learning "well your going to die sometimes mama and I need to know how to do it.') cleaning bath, vacuuming.
give your dh/so a list of errands to do on the way to work.
oh just saw the date on your OP... and you asked about specific tasks - what ever dh didn't do with the list you left him for when he woke up. going on the premise that he works 3-11 time frame he could when he gets off work reboot the laundry (if your doing load a day) can fold a load while he's decompressing from the days work..., if he wakes at 8am or 9am then he can do misc errands- paying bills, shopping (even if he whines and begs no to he can) vacuum, cooking he could put a meal in a slow cooker so you don't have to worry about that before he goes off to work... thus saving you some time/effort. make kids (how old?) keep their toys up- when mine were little I would hold their toys for ransom *if they left them laying about.... usually had to help me fold clothes, put away clothes, dust at their level/reach. then they could 'free' their toy. every six mths we would 'donate' the toys they were tired of- and bring out a new set out of their closet/bin. same with clothes only at 3mth intervals for everyone in the house... my nightly list is this: cooking meal (kids clean up if they don't help), wiping down stovetop/counter, a load of laundry(one load per person, towels are done on the day ds's laundry as he has the least amt of clothes, bedding is done along with mine as I have the next fewest clothes- dd she gets a day all to herself for her 'street' clothes and her uniforms) I line dry or hang on the over the door hanger- we iron as needed but neither show interest in learning so febreeze wrinkle release is used when dd forgets to set out her outfit for school.
again depending on the age of your children you could make them a 'journal' with pics of age appropriate tasks... sticker rewards (a wks of all stickers gets to have icecream, or donating toys earns 2 stickers)... make games for them to 'beat' mama- who can sort socks, fold washclothes, dust the room (my two loved this game i'd set the music to play for 5 mins we each had our 'cloth' and we dust danced around the room. sadly, I am no longer allowed to dance seems since they are older it bothers them) since if I can't dance I can't dust-

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