My parents invited us to go to the state fair this Friday so I told dh and dh (who is a teacher) asked for the day off which he rarely does. I said something last night to my Mom about dh getting the day off and she said "that probably wasn't a good idea for him to have the day off when I was going to be out of town." Huh? I said, "How's he going to the state fair then?" She said "He's not going!" HUH?! She told me that they hadn't included him in the invitation...that he would probably start an argument with my oldest ds and he probably wouldn't want to go anyhow. WTF? She said they planned it on a Friday when he was working and didn't think he'd be going. She and I ended up having a huge argument because I told her that was highly insulting to not include my dh. She couldn't or wouldn't understand that that was extremely rude and insulting. Dh and I have been married for 21 years and will always be married. I know that they don't like him that much and they always side with my oldest ds (who has issues) over my dh...we don't get any support hardly at all dealing with his issues. I told her if he wasn't invited, then I wasn't going either so she said that the kids couldn't go then....nice, huh? She was furious that I told dh, but I came home very angry and he wanted to know what was wrong so I told him. What was I supposed to do after he's already gotten the day off? Was I just supposed to say "I'm sorry, but you can't go, and I can't tell you why." Really...Am I being stupid about this? Would this insult you? Sometimes my parents really, really, really annoy me...