Today when I picked DS1 (14) up from football practice he gets his candy out and this lil bag with a card and a pin in it. He proceeds to tell me the story that goes along with this pin and card. The pin says"I am worth the wait" and the card is a vow to abstinence from now until marriage. They had a class speaker today that told them all about her experiences and the various diseases she contracted. Well I guess it sunk in because a few minutes ago I hear him and DS2 (13) in his rm talking. DS2 says "what is this? this is crap!" DS 1 says"no its not...this lady came and talked to us today and it scared the s**t outta me!! I never want to have sex!" He then proceeded to tell DS 2 and DS 3 (12) this ladys story. Wow this really hit a note with him. Hopefully he will remember it for a good long time.