I take a butt-ton of supplements. But, I hit menopause early and then was one of those people who got a blood clot from Yaz. The doc won't give me anything for the hot flashes (no more b/c pills). I was miserable and I was so ready to kill someone because I was so "off". The only thing I was offered was valium, like that would do me any good.
I went to a naturopath and she put me on flax, vit E, vit B complex, and evening primrose oil. I was taking soy isoflavones and black cohosh. The black cohosh quit working completely and the soy isoflavones only works some of the time.
I also take amberen, a daily vitamin, calcium, a baby aspirin, vit D (live in oregon, the sun only shines here in August), ginko, and a glucosamine "mix". The hot flashes are minimal and I am never sick. And, the urge to kill someone has diminished a ton. I live with teen boys and I am sure that urge will stick around for a few more years. But, it is no longer because of my hormonal issues, it is because of their hormonal "issues".